27 January 2010

complaining about all the complaining

 
 

mustard button-up dress - thrifted | grey tights - sm dept store | black peep-toe booties - celine
owl watch necklace - thrifted at manalili | bangles - props + gifts | black bag - lil' sister's 
sunnies - thrifted at carbon

i really hate ruining this day as harry and i turned 24 months today but all the negativity at work has really gotten to me and has somehow brought me down. all because they were all expecting to get something which is not necessarily something owed to them by the company. what i hate is all the complaining. as if they're just waiting for the answer to fall from heaven -- or in this case, the ceiling since we are confined in the office. nobody has approached me about it and even asked for help. it's as if it's their fight and complaining and being negative is their way of solving it. negativity really brings me down. it tugs on me like an anchor and honestly, it gives me back pains (from all the stress of being bothered by it)... i mean, not getting involved personally at work is easy to say but i can't help it -- especially when i can hear them ranting all the time. threatening resignation? what the....

there...i've let it all out. one thing i learned from my college best friend is patience. and to not complain but proactively step-up and allow things to happen and evolve. to be positive. and think that everything happens for a reason. i wish people can learn to be positive. see, for once, the bigger picture. be damn thankful.
and learn to let go.


to my honeybee, i'm sorry for rambling.
happy anniversary!
the past two years have been a blessing.


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30 comments:

vitaMinn style said...

sorry to hear you had a bad day. hang in there, things will get better soon. don't let it get you down. =)

you should be happy you got a fabulous-colored mustard dress! =)

iamhaidrofilik said...

gorgeous mustard dress! the color is so happy and hopefully people in your office will get infected by your dress' positive vibe. hehe and oh, happy anniversary, you guys stay in love!

p.s. i studied chemical engineering. but it would have been fun if i was a cafa student.LOL xx

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The Style Rider said...

Awh! Congrats on your anniversary!
That yellow dress is so adorable.


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Eden said...

bebeh, the yellow is just so gorgeously cheerful! its so you jud kaayo.:) and congrats on the 2nd anniversary! me and the boyf are approaching ours as well:)

btw have you made up your mind on "what to wear" with the accessories?

<3
eden

Mom Daughter Style said...

it's ok to vent every once in a while. happy anniversary to you and your honey. nice mustard dress

Dirty Hair Halo said...

well despite the bad day, at least you look cute in your yellow dress!

XO

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Toni said...

wow Gizelle! happy anniversary to you and le boyf! wow, asa mo nagcelebrate? chismosa ra? hehe!

am loving ur mustard dress ha! dli jud ko ka timing ana sa ukay ui :s
but i will visit the CDH strip one of these days. a friend of mine, and a blogger too but hers is floating, thrifts there pud!

i hope things will get better soon sa office!

just keep the positive outlook and SMILE!!

Lilee▲ said...

i just luuurve your dress!

eunice said...

aww happy anniversary! you two look cute together :)

love your mustard dress, its my fav colour!

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Andy Tan said...

happy anniversary to both of you! Oh, and I love the dress!

xoxo,
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Lemon for breakfast said...

this colour is great!!!

Jen said...

you're a vision in mustard!!!!!!! you're such a gorgeous lady and you look amazing in these pictures. i hope things go better for you at work over the next few days. negativity is never a good thing and it's contagious. try to stay positive and don't let the stress going around affect you.
on a brighter note, congrats on your two year anniversary with your boy! :)

Alita Claudia said...

I like ur dress, so cute :)

Mila said...

Oh I love your outfit!

Nina said...

Hi Gizelle!

Please keep your chin up and smile always? Promise me?

deanne said...

paypims. happy anniversary to you and harry. you look very pretty with the dress.

hope work will be better for you in the next days. ;) xoxo

Isa said...

oh,my advise is: try not to worry, just wait until the realized that complaning is not the right way...
because soon or later their are gonig to find out....

cool dress!! :)

xoxo

Panda said...

Heya!
Wow, i love this outfit! Its so cute... :-)
Panda xx
Oh + thanks so much for my lovely comment, as always i appreciate it!

betz said...

i'm with you about complaining... maglagot pud ko ana. but hey, happy anniversary to you and your love! you look dashing in that mustard dress btw!

xx,
betz
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Tuesdai Noelle said...

Hey Gizelle :)

...we all have those mornings/noons/evenings....I had MY "morning," but was able to bounce back with a little laughter, and positive thinking (thinking on how good it feels not to be MAD--if that makes any sense). And you're right everything does happen for a reason...sometimes to cause us to move from a situation or TO a situation. As it's said, everything has it's season..don't worry, everything will mold itself into the proper place, and you'll know yours within it :)

Stay beautiful, smile BIG :)

Tuesdai Noelle said...

Btw, CUTE dress!!!

Jen said...

Happy Anniversary to you and your guy. Hope you have a lovely night and can forget the stresses of work.

I'm going through something that sounds very similar at my own workplace and my only advice is take a step back, a deep breath and put up a wall between you and the stress. That's how I'm coping with it. Hope you feel more positive about it soon. xx

Jing said...

happy anniversary sa inyu duha.you look good together.i love seeing happy couples.maka-inlove pud ug samot.hehe

I adore your dress.i love that shade of yellow.makahappy!:)

kirstyb said...

love your outfit you look fab x

Russel Capatoy said...

hayzz... ana jud na... i guess that's why it's called work because it can never be 100% fun all the time... i've some stuff going on my own pud... kalagot!

Hillary said...

I can't get over the cuteness of your dress! The color and the buttons are fabulous. I'm so sorry about the work stress, and I hope it gets better soon.

And congratulations on your anniversary. I hope the day was wonderful!

katrina said...

i realize i'm going backwards here... i just read your most-recent post and i'm happy to hear that this situation is resolved. hang in there, sweetie.

michelle_ said...

you look sooo pretty and fresh with yellow dress :D
and i love that shot of ur havaianas !
the havaianas we have here in indo sucks.. they laack of colors and prints !

t h a n k s . for your c o m m e n t s
hugs & kisses from
miCHELLE @ GLISTERS&BLISTERS

Rebecca, The Clothes Horse said...

I love your dress! Negativity and complaining is awful. I really dislike it when people have high expectations--I mean, shouldn't we just try to have an attitude of thankfulness? I feel I have an awful lot to be thankful for (even though there is more I could want!). :)

Vita said...

this yellow color is great :)

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